Honestly, I don't know why I bother to care anymore. I have concluded that living with people does not make them your close friends. We are simply cohabiting. I have also learned the whole, "Treat others the way you want to be treated" phrase means nothing to these "cohabitants." I am fed up with trying, and caring to form an intimate friendship. It's impossible. How many more talks can I have over the same issue before you realize, "Hey, we haven't changed or made efforts to include you more." I accepted a long time ago that our friendships don't click like those of my other close friends and that effort will be needed to get the ball rolling. I am so dissatisfied with these friends right now that it frustrates me beyond belief!